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How to answer: "Dairy is good for you!"

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Alissa Appel said #1 Oct 20, 2009 at 1:59pm

I am sometimes at a lose when it comes up that I do not eat dairy, and the immediate response is, "But dairy is good for you! It builds strong bones!" I often don't have the energy to begin to dissect this chimera.

Does anyone have a suggestion for a good, basic, and non-condescending response?

Thanks!

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Kathryn Polster said #2 Oct 20, 2009 at 2:35pm

I just say I don't really like it, or it's just not for me. That way you don't have to go into all the detail, which they are going to argue about anway.

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Robyn Eastling said #3 Oct 21, 2009 at 10:31am

I usually respond that I don't eat dairy because I'm not a cow.

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Amanda Goodfried said #4 Oct 21, 2009 at 10:34am

Robyn, I love that answer!

Alissa, this is a really good question and something I run into as well. I don't like to get into long discussions about and it would be great to have an easy oneliner handy. I may have to use the "I'm not a cow" expression. :)

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Zachary Wolk said #5 Oct 21, 2009 at 10:56am

something I used to have on my myspace because - would you drink the milk from someone else's momma?

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Kathryn Polster said #6 Oct 21, 2009 at 11:01am

Love that - Because I'm not a cow! Yess!

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Zachary Wolk said #7 Oct 21, 2009 at 11:07am

Your intestine will always absorb sufficient calcium to meet your needs from the foods you eat. On a diet low in calcium, the efficiency of mineral absorption is increased, and the intestine takes in more calcium. On a high-calcium diet, more calcium is left in the intestine to be excreted, unused, in the feces.16 The intestine is so "smart" about calcium that it never fails to meet the body's needs. If you look over the last hundred years of scientific and nutritional literature you will find there is no evidence that dietary calcium deficiency occurs in humans, even though most people in the world don't drink milk after weaning - because of custom, lactose intolerance, or simply because milk is not generally available in their part of the world. 7,14, 17-20 This means there is no such disease as "dietary calcium deficiency" - think again if your mind drifts to osteoporosis - remember, populations with the lowest calcium intakes have the strongest bones; the least osteoporosis, worldwide.11http://www.nealhendrickson.com/mcdougall/030400pudairyproductsfalsepromises.htm

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Randy Blackburn said #8 Oct 21, 2009 at 11:17am

Just say its bad for me... and its really bad for the cows... ps.. the high protein content of milk and dairy actually leeches calcium from you!! so your not getting calcium from cows milk.. its taking it from you!

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Randy Blackburn said #9 Oct 21, 2009 at 11:17am

Just say its bad for me... and its really bad for the cows... ps.. the high protein content of milk and dairy actually leeches calcium from you!! so your not getting calcium from cows milk.. its taking it from you!

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Alissa Appel said #10 Oct 22, 2009 at 12:11pm

Thanks everyone! Those are all really good responses. Has anyone read "The China Study" yet? I have it but haven't gotten to it.

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