"Party Vegan" by Robin Robertson is great to design a full meal. The recipes are organized by occasion, and the author also provides alternate menus were you can mix and match recipes. Not the healthiest stuff around (lots of white flour, refined sugar, etc.) but very crowd-pleasing, and easily customized to whatever ingredients you're more comfortable with. I've had good results with everything I tried from this book.
Another good "omni-pleasing" cookbook, although not pre-organized by menu, is Skinny B*tch - The Ultimate Cookbook by Kim Barnouin. Don't let the title stop you, the recipes are absolutely awesome, easy, and so tasty, you won't miss the meat. I looove this cookbook!!
Dessert-wise, I suggest "Sweet Vegan" by Emily Mainquist. You simply can't tell it's vegan... Again, lots of refined stuff, but it's a great occasional treat. Surely a great way to make the non-vegan around us happy and satisfied.
I hope this help! Enjoy!!
PS - A lot of my friends don't mind eating vegan, but would rather go by the "Don't ask, don't tell" policy i.e. I don't broadcast that what I'm serving is vegan (they're smart enough to figure out that it is since I'm eating it), but I will point it out if they comment on how delicious it is. Same thing when I throw dinner parties, no need to invite them to a "vegan dinner party". Who knows, they might not even notice... =)
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