I don't know if I'm in the right place being on this website. I do have Alicias book so I came here.
I gave up meat and poultry but did not give up fish or dairy. It's been a few years now. I don't know if I will go completely Vegan. I thought giving up meat and poultry was a good step. My friends always say "she's a vegetarian" when we go out to eat or if someone offers me meaty dishes. I always say, no, I still eat fish and dairy.
It was actually harder than I thought, not the giving up part, but my friends reactions. One friends reaction was actually hurtful. I choose to order meatless meals when we go out and she said that people who don't eat meat "throw it in her face". She had a few drinks at the time but it was hurtful. I never throw it in her face. she actually told me it was stupid that I gave up meat. Again she was drinking, and never said anything about it ever again.
Trying to do the right thing isn't always easy. Im not judging others because they do eat meat, I'm often tempted myself when I smell the meat cooking on the BBQ. Somehow just by not eating it, I make them feel guilt. Most people do not give me a bad time though. Just a few.it's always great when I meet someone else who is eating like I am:) One of our favorite happy hour places is a steak house. I have some wine and the tuna tartar. One day the bartender, trying to be nice gave me little beef shish kabobs, They looked delicious, I felt bad that I had to tell him I dont eat meat. He felt bad giving it to me, and we all felt bad. My firends ate them.
Another story.. I collect recyclables for my coworker to cash in. He doesn't know me well, he comes around during lunch and cleans the rooms, empties the garbage. As a thank you gesture, his wife made me spaghetti that had little pieces of meat in it. Just to be nice to him, I had a lttle portion, trying to eat around the meat, and gave the rest to my coworkers.
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