I have mixed feelings about fake meats in general. I like them, they're fast and easy, but.... I feel like serving them to non-vegetarians is tricky. It seems to reinforce this idea that vegans are just pining away for meat, and cheese, and dairy and all of that. I tend to like to serve other things just to dispell that thinking.
This year I am making a chard and sweet potato torte (recipe from Vegetarian Times). It's pretty and will look very fancy, and yet its super easy (I am on-call for work on Thanksgiving and don't want to get stuck having to leave things half done!). The original recipe has Taleggio cheese in it, but I'm going to replace it with a tofu "ricotta". I'm going to do mashed potatos and gravy, my own green bean casserole, baby carrots, and pumpkin pie.
I wouldn't apologize for the lack of turkey. Its your home, your vegan, they really shouldn't expect turkey! When I go to other people's houses for holidays, I never expect them to make something special to accomodate me! If someone offers to bring it, let them, but otherwise I just wouldn't even mention it!
And by the way - our family also adopted Victoria the turkey at Farm Sanctuary!!
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